So far in this series, we’ve talked about how God created women with intention—not as an afterthought—and how real strength often shows up in quiet, unexpected ways. We even looked at the Proverbs 31 woman who somehow runs a business, manages real estate, and still—by some miracle—gets dinner on the table.
But what does it look like to live out that kind of faith in real life?
Thankfully, the Bible gives us a front-row seat to some women who did just that. Some were front and center. Others worked behind the scenes. But none of them had to become someone they weren’t to make a lasting impact.
Deborah: The Leader Who Didn’t Apologize for Being a Woman
(Judges 4–5)
Deborah wasn’t backstage organizing snacks. She was leading Israel—serving as a judge, delivering God’s word, and guiding her people through war.
“And Deborah, a prophetess, the wife of Lapidoth, she judged Israel at that time.” (Judges 4:4)
She didn’t muscle her way into leadership. She stepped into the role God gave her—with clarity, wisdom, and guts.
When Israel’s commander hesitated to go to battle without her, she agreed—but also let him know exactly how this was going to go:
“The journey that thou takest shall not be for thine honour; for the Lord shall sell Sisera into the hand of a woman.” (Judges 4:9)
Spoiler: that woman was Jael, who brought down the enemy commander with a tent peg and a whole lot of courage.
Two women. Two roles. One shared mission: obedience.
Esther: The Queen Who Used Her Position Quietly and Powerfully
(Book of Esther)
Esther didn’t claw her way into power. She didn’t arrive with an agenda or demand to be heard. But when the moment came to act, she also didn’t shy away.
She prayed. She fasted. And she waited for the right moment. When it came?
“If I perish, I perish.” (Esther 4:16)
That wasn’t drama—it was faith.
She didn’t save her people by shouting. She saved them by trusting God and using her voice with wisdom and courage.
Mary: The Woman Who Said Yes to the Hardest Assignment
(Luke 1–2)
Mary wasn’t trying to build a platform. She wasn’t looking for attention. She was just a young woman with a surrendered heart.
When the angel gave her the news—the kind that would change everything—she didn’t panic or push back.
“Behold the handmaid of the Lord; be it unto me according to thy word.” (Luke 1:38)
She simply, humbly said yes to the hardest, holiest assignment of all. And that quiet obedience changed eternity.
Ruth: The Outsider Who Chose Faithfulness
(Book of Ruth)
Ruth had every excuse to take the easy way out. She was a widow, a Moabite, and no one expected her to stay.
But she did.
She stayed. She served. And she trusted.
“For whither thou goest, I will go... thy people shall be my people, and thy God my God.” (Ruth 1:16)
Her quiet faithfulness didn’t just change her mother-in-law Naomi’s life—it wove her into the very lineage of Christ.
Rahab: The Woman With a Past—and a Future
(Joshua 2)
Rahab wasn’t a leader, a queen, or anyone the world would expect God to use.
She was a Canaanite. A woman with a past. And she lived in a city destined for destruction.
But when she heard about the God of Israel, she believed.
“For the Lord your God, he is God in heaven above, and in earth beneath.” (Joshua 2:11)
She hid the spies. She risked her life. And her faith saved her family.
Rahab’s past didn’t disqualify her—her faith defined her.
And that same faith landed her in the lineage of Christ and in the Hebrews 11 “hall of faith.”
God doesn’t just use the polished and prepared. He uses the willing.
What Did They All Have in Common?
✔ They didn’t chase visibility.
✔ They didn’t abandon who God created them to be.
✔ They weren’t obsessed with being seen.
✔ They walked in obedience—and God used their faithfulness to shape history.
And it wasn’t just what they did. It was how they did it—through trust, courage, humility, and obedience.
What This Means for Us
Let’s be clear: I’m not criticizing women with big platforms, loud voices, or high-profile callings. God uses women everywhere—from boardrooms to classrooms, living rooms to mission fields.
This isn’t about how visible you are. It’s about how rooted you are.
Are we trying to prove our worth, or walking like we already know it?
Because real influence doesn’t come from followers. It comes from faithfulness.
Deborah led with courage.
Esther acted with strategy.
Mary surrendered with trust.
Ruth stayed with loyalty.
Rahab believed with boldness.
And not one of them had to become somebody else to be used by God.
The Bottom Line
The women who truly changed the world didn’t do it by shouting louder or chasing applause. They didn’t redefine womanhood—they lived it, fully and faithfully.
Some of them were seen. Others were not.
But all of them trusted the One who gave them the assignment.
And that kind of obedience? It’s still changing the world today.
No confusion here—just women who know who they are, Whose they are, and what really matters.
Thank you, Tami. You are a beautiful model of faithfulness. I’m blessed to follow your example.
This is brilliant! I also like Lydia in Acts and Mary who sat at Jesus' feet. While her sister was bothered with serving. "Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her." How often have I been Martha rather than Mary.
A lady once told me St Paul hated women, but anybody who says that has obviously not read his letters. He pays honor to multiple women in his letters, several of whom were instrumental in establishing the early church.